Fine, we have all heard that myth - that "nice guys" do not make it and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy vs a nice guy.
I think there are other personality factors involved that perhaps bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.
Bad boys usually are less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I think that it would be these personalities that are attracting a woman not the point that a guy is bad.
I personally almost never use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy guy to hook and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little aloof, I don't compliment women when I initially meet them or tell them how lovely they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am interested in them or just being good.
That is what sets me apart from a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I love them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of meeting men who praise them.
Girls like guys who are appealing and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without mentioning a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both appealing and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also remember that women have different personalities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique differs from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking female may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little nasty and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but arrogant and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.
You see no matter what you are like there is a person for you. But you have to determine who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet people like that. So regardless of if you are a bad boy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and different to the women you encounter and you will be successful.
One of the most difficult things to learn in life is that regardless of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are dull there are women who are perfectly compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the gathering.
The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, try to act differently and they are not being themselves, so they don't appeal to anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will realize that there are people who will accept you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will get a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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