You were a challenge for her. You had a high value and she was irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm preparing to make a wild guess here, however can it be that as time went on, you started to be less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that at this time, you are zero challenge for her? Not to mention that she understands that if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and twisted around her finger just by saying the word?
I'm going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to become a challenge once more you have to prove to your ex lover that her sexuality has no control over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that consider just what it's like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other dating choices.
Your sweetheart will not respect you again until you refuse her power over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not specifically corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Don't be "friends" with her, as that rewards her with the continued consent of power over you while providing her a comfortable reason to stay separated. (Your lover reasons that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging any culpability she may feel.)
Then again, always keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. Most likely a lot of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She might ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like everything back again.
The best answer to this is definitely "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her holding onto your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you must completely recognize -- and embrace -- the idea that you are an independent guy now. Take what happened with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You've got a golden chance to revolutionize your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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